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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just say no to hosting you don’t want to do. Don’t worry about mom’s pressure or judginess. It’s annoying that she claims to have paid for your wedding. You can ask her why she says that if you want, acknowledging that they made a significant and much-appreciated contribution to you wedding, but that you also shouldered the bulk of it.[/quote] +1 no more hosting. At this point it’s not about your family not throwing you a shower. You’ve shouldered more than enough for your family. It’s time for someone else to take on that responsibility. As for the paying for the wedding. The next time your mom says it, pull her aside and ask why she keeps saying that. And since it bothers you (and I get why) correct her. Do you know why your families didn’t provide the contributions that they are now providing to others? Are they in a better financial position now? Did they not expect the marriage to last?[/quote]
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