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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am having a strange dilemma regarding my feelings towards my relationship. I have an absolutely adorable boyfriend who worships the ground I walk on and tends to my every need. He is patient and gentle with me even when I am at my worst. I love him to pieces. However, we have had a roller coaster relationship. We started off with me being in love with him but he dumped me for his ex girlfriend to getting back together to me feeling resenful of that for almost a year. 2 years later, I wanted to get married and he kept saying he wanted to marry me too but wouldn't actively try to plan an engagement or work towards it. Finally he seems to be coming around and now I just feel...exhausted. I feel underwhelmed. I feel like he gives me what I want but only after I'm done asking and begging for it. I don't feel excited anymore and am instead find myself feeling annoyed and disappointed.[/quote]

Worships the ground you walk on but dump you for his ex? Carefully think through that for a minute. You have all the information you need to make the best relationship decision for yourself moving forward. [/quote]

He does AFTER he came back and we got back together. He makes me dinner almost every night, runs errands for me, watches every chick flick with me that I want, buys me organic food etc. [/quote]

Girl, watching chick flicks and buying you organic food isn't love. Your standards needs to be higher than "he runs errands".

Get to therapy and figure out why your self esteem is so low that you settled for being his second choice. [/quote]

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