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[quote=Anonymous]It was a rough adjustment for me in the very beginning, but it wasn't just the decision to stay at home, it was also just adjusting to parenthood in general. Three kids and many years later (youngest is now in elementary school), I believe it was absolutely the best choice for both me and the family unit as a whole, financially and mentally.  I thoroughly enjoy life as a SAHM, and have found joy in my roles as both a mother and school/community volunteer now that I have the kid free hours during the day to do those things.  The after school period right now with the elementary and middle school ages is fairly chaotic (instruments, sports, school events like concerts and science fairs) so it's helpful even with full time school, to have the daytime hours to myself to devote to cooking, cleaning, errands, pets, doc appointments.  I have more energy for all our running around in the evenings, and our weekends are more relaxing.

I agree with those who said this is all about what you want.  If working is important to you, then find a way to maintain your career, even if temporarily it is costing you childcare funds (and perhaps cleaning/landscaping/etc help) to do so.  The journey is long.  You might pay now for the flexibility and increased salary/payoff down the road.

But yes to answer your question, there are many of us who left careers to stay at home who are very happy with our decision.[/quote]

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