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[quote=Anonymous]I’m too dense to figure out your gender- but if you’re women and want to do ivf there’s a biological push to make this happen soon. If you’re men you have more flexibility if you’re using a GC or going to adopt, but you’re not getting younger.

My oldest is nearly ten and I thank all that is holy that I don’t have a younger kid at my age (42). That is mostly due to where I am in my career versus 10 years ago, but I’m also not in a place mentally or physically  where I could go back to sleepless nights.

Were I you, I would focus on how to best integrate my new spouse into my existing family. A baby is exciting but you have to know that the way they would relate to their siblings is much different than if the age difference was smaller.  The older sibling will be out of the house when the baby would just be entering elementary.

So, I agree that the kids have enough going on but not because you’re gay- just because that’s a lot of life changes at once.

Congratulations on your marriage. [/quote]

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