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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have 2 lgbt teens. I let them have sleepovers. It seems cruel to isolate them. I guess I agree with your DH. I’ve raised them with my values. [b]They know my stance on topics related to drugs and sex. [/b]They’re good kids and follow rules in general, so I hope they’re respectful of these rules too.

The thing is, if they want to have sex, prohibiting sleepovers won’t prevent them. If I know they have a specific boyfriend/girlfriend, we don’t allow one on one sleepovers, but we’d allow a slumber party/group party. That’s our compromise. [/quote]

Because no kid has ever gone against their parents stance regarding drugs and sex. [/quote]

I mean every human being will have sex most before they are completely independent. I don't see why we lump that with drug use or abuse. It's completely normal. That said it's ok to be uncomfortable with having your teens have sex while you are home. I agree with the poster that said, make it a discussion, she will help you navigate it and let her know what you are and aren't comfortable with (ie, sex in the home) for down the line. Don't assume younger teens are all ready to get down. Statistically actually, they aren't![/quote]

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