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Reply to "We've been dating for less than a year. Now he has a serious, life-altering illness."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I would give it some time to play out, unless you are running out of time on the biological clock or have some other time pressure. [/quote] This. I would hang in there and support him through this crisis stage (which won't last) and just plan not to make any decisions for 6 months (or 3 months or a year or whatever time frame seems appropriate to you). You don't have to decide the rest of your life right now and you don't know what life will look like for him yet. You will also learn a great deal about each other through this process and that will inform how you both feel and what you want. Take the pressure off the lifelong decisions for the time being. [/quote] This is good advice too.[/quote]
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