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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not RSPVing means they aren't coming.  I would be more annoyed if they said RSVPed no and came and you didn't have enough food.

Are they local?[/quote]

Yes they’re both local. The one who didn’t RSVP did send a gift but didn’t say anything to me about the shower, at all. The other said she couldn’t come but didn’t send anything for the baby.

I guess it’s just sad to me because these women are all DD will have for aunts in her life once she’s born and neither one has shown interest at all.[b] I just feel it’s rude to not even acknowledge the shower[/b]. [/quote]

They DID acknowledge the shower.  One RSVPed that she could not attend because she would be out of town.  The other sent a gift.

You sound difficult.  You're already deciding that they will be dud aunts and your baby isn't even born yet.  [/quote]

Seriously.  Your SIL sent you a gift and rather than expressing a little gratitude, you are complaining about what she didn't do.  People are human, maybe she meant to RSVP and she forgot.  She obviously didn't mean to snub you if she sent a gift.  Your other SIL couldn't make it and she let you know, yet you are still upset.   You are seem to be looking for a reason to take offense.  For the sake of harmonious family relations, please reconsider how your attitude towards these women will shape your relationship with them in the future, and their relationship with your yet to be born baby.[/quote]

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