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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We've been on 1 date 
I met her at work.[/quote]

Pfffft did she even know it was a "date"?

This is why you don't shit where you eat, chump.[/quote]

I work 80 hours a week. Meeting someone at work is inevitable.[/quote]

Hmm, I would be curious if she has the same type of hours and wants to date someone that may not have a lot of time to give a potential relationship.

Anyway, I think it is a valid  to dig a little further if someone specifically said they haven’t been on a date in years but they have an online dating profile up and appear to be dating.  I personally assume that until the exclusive talk has happened, you are  still dating other people. So I would be irked if you go out of your way to say you aren’t dating other people when you really are.  With a benefit of the doubt, maybe it is timing and when they statement was made she hadn’t been on a date in years but things changed.  Also, she can be into you and still date other people if you aren’t exclusive.  I dated a few guys when I met my now DH and part of that was not to get hung up on any one person before I figured out if he was really a good match and that he felt the same way.

You OP have a decision to make.  Given that you work together is it worth it to put cards on the table and let her know that you think your friend crossed paths with her on the dating site or would you rather just move on but handle it in a way that doesn’t make it awkward,[/quote]

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