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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Having a second child is more than having a baby that is easy or difficult. Could afford two in daycare? What about college for both? Room in the house? Family support? Do you handle stress well? I had newborn when I had a toddler and it was tough. [/quote]

OP here. I know having a second child is more than having an easy or difficult baby. I spoke more about the baby stage because that’s where I’m at with my first child. I have no idea what will happen when he becomes a toddler and beyond. I know having an active toddler and a new baby will not be easy.

Finance wise we can afford two. We use a nanny, not daycare, and can afford to pay a nanny for both. We have lots of family help. We have a big house with plenty of room for another child and we will save for college. I do handle stesss somewhat well, but I can hire more help or have family help if it becomes too stressful. [/quote]

Sounds like not only can you handle one more, you want one more.

As someone in a similar situation (two careers, although younger) I can say that having two has not been simple but it's been really worth it. We even occasionally think about three. All the clichés you hear about sibling love are true -- it's just that incredible to see their bond develop, and to know that they have a relationship which goes beyond yours. We also prefer the dynamic of more than one kid in our family. It's very personal though. No right answer. [/quote]

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