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Reply to "Another variation of "another kid?" but this is more about the spouse."
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[quote=Anonymous]Before we were married I wanted four and DH wanted two kids. Then we had fertility problems and DH was happy with one. I wasn't. We had a lot of discussions, and I finally said that I was not happy with only one and that we had to try for two. And he said we could try for 2 years, and that was it - and I agreed after 2 years we would stop trying. (We did conceive w/in that window.) So, my advice is a bit different - I would say both of you need to understand that a lack of a decision *is* a decision here. If you don't decide relatively quickly, fertility rate does go down, and either the question will be answered for you or one will resent either stopping at one or the difficulty of fertility treatments. [/quote]
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