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Reply to "At a loss- spouse openly disregarded my wishes on something"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I conclude, because OP is deliberately concealing what the item her spouse purchased actually is, that OP is clearly in the wrong. If she told us what the item is, her objection would not be justifiable, and she is obviously aware of that.[/quote] My guess is that either the item is unique enough to be identifying to anyone’s who knows about it in real life, or OP doesn’t want to get into a debate about whether or not she should take on the burden of the particular thing at the expense of talking about the problem in her marriage (spouse making unilateral decisions without regard for the impact to the other spouse). Unless the thing is getting needed cancer treatment, whether any of us would be okay with our spouse getting it is irrelevant to whether OP is or should be okay with it.[/quote]
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