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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: This has absolutely nothing to do with money and it’s just about time. Sorry, should have made that clear. Our disagreements typically have nothing to do with money, it’s always time. Which we basically have none of, so anything that I do for myself impacts him and vice versa. [/quote] OP Am I interpreting this right that your DH wanted to buy an object that he will use for enjoyment (a kayak? A pottery wheel? Golf clubs? A piano?) and you said no because his spending time on the activity will mean he’ll have less time for the family/household and more will fall on you? Do you have to be the fun police like that? Can you support the hobby but just work on the home work split, if that’s the issue? Hobbies are good for us. Maybe you can get a babysitter or a maid and do the hobby together. [/quote]
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