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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I totally feel this way. I am not naturally a nurturer at all. I don’t go out of my way to talk to people’s kids or hold babies throughout the day. I prefer being around adults. I love my kids, and I do all the responsible, caring things they need, but I do think certain personalities are just more naturally suited to parenting.[/quote] Who are these people who are going out of their way to talk to children or hold babies throughout the day...? What person seriously prefers hanging out with children to hanging out with adults? I think you guys have invented some kind of mother figure that doesn’t exist.[/quote] I think this as well. People are feeling inadequate and comparing themselves to a figure they have invented in their head. Or maybe a “super mom” they saw on Instagram or whatever. I know no one who wants to hold babies throughout the day. I think we are all Pretty similar, some people just feel self conscious about it. [/quote]
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