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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, start parenting! That is so pathetic, you are allowing her to be set up for a lifetime of hurt. Cut off her access to money. These girls are not her friends![/quote]

IA with this.  It's harsh, yes, but she needs to learn ASAP.  The 'friends' have probably already started to wise up to her generosity and will only start using her more.  My older sister was like this; she couldn't say no to anyone when she was younger, even if it was someone who had hurt her/teased her/wronged her in the past.  If they needed help or asked for something that she could provide, she would.  The fact that people were just using her finally sunk in when she was a senior in HS.  Some girls asked her for a ride to the party and she was so excited to go because it was a big deal type of party.  I remember helping her get ready and being SO jealous because I was only a Sophomore and didn't get an invite or have any friends who were invited.  Turns out, they literally just needed a ride there.  When she parked to get out, they asked what she was doing and then laughed that she thought she got to attend.  She said they told her "we asked you for a ride, not to go with us.  You should learn to listen better."  She was crushed but it was the c*nt punt that she needed to stop being so nice to everyone and getting used.      [/quote]

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