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[quote=Anonymous]OP-Its good you’re trying to help family. When our son died suddenly we were helped and supported tremendously in the first few months but if you can-try and sustain being available for the long haul.

So glad someone pointed out to do NOTHING in regards to the child’s belongings. Until you have had this loss you have no idea how strong the need is to hang on to physical connections. No one should judge.

You did not mention where she lives but: Although its a non-denominational program (and we are not Jewish) Jewish Social Services in Rockville runs an awesome group for parents/Child Loss Support. It became our life line to functioning and finding our way forward. So so so much better than the often recommended Compassionate Friends group. The facilitator won’t even think of having them join the group until 3 months have past (and right away individual/couple/family therapy best) but if you can gently mention this to your friends in a couple of months-do it. (Google info.)

Last advice-don’t just offer to ‘do anything’ offer insteas something concrete like I can shop for you on Tuesday. or I can get lawn mown next weekend.’ etc[/quote]

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