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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get why she's proud. It's nice to see your kids feel free to chose what interests them, especially when it goes against gendered stereotypes. But I agree that she needs to remember that her DD needs to chose her own path too. I worry that I'm socially gendering my DD already, even though she's just a few months old. I've always generally disliked pink as a color but I keep gravitating towards pink outfits for her to wear. Why?![/quote] Because she's a baby girl, and that's what baby girls wear. It's not about you, PP.[/quote] What's wrong exactly with "socially gendering" your DD? For millenia, parents have grasped that part of their job is to help their children understand what they are. It's a recent phenomenon that people have believed otherwise. Here's a tip: stop believe that you or a bunch of forgettable academics pushing this gender theory stuff are somehow smarter than the collective wisdom of thousands of years. The truth is that you are not.[/quote] This is kind of stupid . for most of history, men and women were told exactly who they should be based on biological necessity. Those constraints no longer exist. They haven't in a very long time. It is a good thing that men and women are free to be who they want to be, rather than a ridiculous social construct. And sometimes, it takes parents encouraging their children to try things different than what their peers might try to let them know that they have some freedom and choice[/quote]
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