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[quote=Anonymous]I like the idea of tying up the trust in an illiquid asset like real estate that can throw off a yearly income.  She could off course sell the property, but that takes organization and financial savvy, which she appears to lack.  I would not give her money from the trust except to pay tuition, which I would pay directly to the school.

Agree with others to let her continue living in the house.  For now, I would do rent free and not impose rules about where she spends the night. Only rule should be that she lets you know where she is so you don't worry.  Also welcome her to whatever food is in the house.  Other than that, no support.

If she enrolled full time in community college, she could get money for books and an allowance that is small enough she would want to take a part-tim job.

No drugs in the house is a good idea, but I wouldn't sweat marijuana smoked outside the house. To be honest, they all are doing that.  I would consider refraining from any criticism of the boyfriend; that so often makes the object of criticism more desirable.  Indeed, being overly pleasant about him could help put her off him.

This book is frequently suggested on the teen board; you might find it helpful:

https://www.amazon.com/Yes-Your-Teen-Crazy-Without/dp/0936197447[/quote]

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