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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn’t get involved the way you are thinking.  I would talk to my sibling to find out why she thinks her husband is cheating.  My guess is that she knows why.  She needs to start reflecting on her own behavior— is she giving her husband what he needs, is she kind and loving to her husband?  She needs to talk to her own spouse to find out what she can do to get him back, if she wants a marriage.  A lot of times spouses cheat because the wife or husband is not having sex or is just plain mean.  These are things your sister needs to reflect upon.[/quote]

gaslighting much? why are you putting guilt with the one who was cheated on?? what if the wife is busy with kids and work and household without husband's help around.  of course "satisfying spouse's needs" at the end of the day or even being nice to him is the last thing she wants to do at this point.

BTW, the OP never specified whether she was talking about a brother or sister, she said "sibling". it could be a brother and she was close with her SIL.[/quote]

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