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Reply to "Would you be comfortable with your boyfriend paying for things like hair and nails?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I'm very well groomed and get my hair and nails done all the time. I randomly mentioned going this weekend and he offered to pay said he would pay in the future if I wanted. He already pays for all our dates. I don't think he means anything by it. He's not controlling. He's very nice, but very different from other men I've dated. I'm thinking this is likely a cultural thing for him, but still I want to keep some of my feminism, but don't want to hurt his feelings either.[/quote] Is there a significant financial difference between the two of you, like this is something that he can afford easily even though you need to budget carefully for it? If he was paying for something different, that was also a regular expense, like your electric bill or gas for your car, would it feel the same? I don't think this would bother me that much, since he's not implying you need to change. [/quote]
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