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[quote=Anonymous]I am so so sorry OP. I would be shocked, scared and angry too. I don't think you should or need to make any decisions now, or even a year from now. I do think you should have counseling as a couple and he should do individual counseling. I am not condoning staying or leaving, but infidelity is rampant and many marriages survive it. Not all do. For me, personally, if it happened once, DH was intensely remorseful, was fully transparent, willing to do the work of repair and there weren't another history of lying or deception and the marriage had, until then, been pretty solid, I'd try to stick it out for a while and see if it worked. If it were part of a larger pattern of deception and lack of transparency or more lies were disclosed, I would start preparing to separate. [/quote]
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