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[quote=Anonymous]What a d-bag. Don't make any decisions today. Or tomorrow. Talk this through with a counselor -- someone who can help you work through the emotions and pragmatic decisions of what is next. I suggest a counselor because your friends and family are going to want to burn him at the stake and make him pay. That isn't necessarily in anyone's best interest. Take your time, figure out if trust can every be regained. Once you know whether or not you're open to trusting him, then you start plotting next steps. As I'm sure you realize, this isn't just about you and him. One of you needs to take all of this into account and figure out what is best for your family. FWIW, I've been in your shoes -- and I ended up divorcing because I knew I wouldn't trust him again, ever. I didn't want to live like that and I didn't want my kids to see that as a 'normal' relationship. Everyone is better off now.[/quote]
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