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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have to talk to your daughter before the wedding. You have to. You may lose her, but you have to do it. Use lots of “I” statements and give her room to talk about how she sees this situation. Definitely tell her you feel like she’s changed too, and are worried about her and any children she might have. Use some specific examples of things she and FIL to be have said.[/quote] This, and soon. also, stand up for yourself and refuse to spend time with these people and say why. You've let this go on too long. I get why that's the case and am very sympathetic, but if my parents had been horrified by one of my boyfriends I would have really thought twice. Her fiance is part and parcel of this. If he wasn't, they wouldn't be spending so much time with them. And while 26 is a grown woman, I was still very close to my parents then. Best of luck.[/quote]
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