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[quote=Anonymous]They change really quickly from children to adults (ok, sorta) and during this process, they can be quite volatile - and they push back hard against the constraints of childhood, even if appropriate. I found the high school much less effective or responsive than I had the earlier schools, which made things much more complicated since my kid has a chronic issue that results in more absences than ideal. They have the ability to get into all sorts of trouble that you really can't control like you could when younger. Basically, the challenges with little ones are that it is physically grueling. The actual child isn't really all that complicated. With teens, there are fewer physical demands besides driving, but the person you are dealing with is extremely complicated. People like my kid - he is a mensch, he is polite to everyone, inclusive and responsible. He can clean, and do laundry. He does his school work in college. He takes care of himself. Yes, I had good material, but he didn't get this way without a lot of parenting effort, a lot of which met with oposition at the time.[/quote]
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