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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean, she is a person who is giving full time 24/7 care to a dying parent and has a rocky marriage and moved 2 hours from her social scene. And she has young kids. That has to be isolating and exhausting. You are not responsible for her, but it does seem like she has a lot on her plate, so I can see why she is pushy to try and maintain anything that feels safe and enjoyable to her. If you are not interested, nbd. But, if you like her and want to be a support to someone who is clearly going through a tough time, you give her three times that work for you. You dictate more of the terms. If they don’t work, you tried.[/quote] This. Or have her go to Target with you or Wegmans and you sit down for 20 min for coffee. I work very part time also and very rarely meet people for coffee. Throw the poor mom a pity coffee.[/quote] This is OP and I agree. I don’t want her to feel alone. It’s kist awkward until we meet I guess.[/quote]
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