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[quote=Anonymous]In our home we try to make sure the spouse is on board with our plans, but there are times when DH is the driver for entertaining and in those cases, he tends to do more of the prep work. There are times its more my thing and I do it, and then we have parties we are equally on board with. In this case, if I were tired/traveling the next day/not up for it (but generally am up for things) I would say, 'I'm not up to doing a lot of the prep and clean up. Happy to have folks over if you can take the lead on that stuff.". I would also have no problem bowing out at 9 pm to put kids to bed, etc (and many families will leave then too). I think its reasonable that OP is annoyed but her DH should be able to entertain in his home too, and if he did all the prep for this party, I think its one of those things you let slide. [/quote]
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