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[quote=Anonymous]I would say 3ish too. I remember looking at him at the park once and just seeing some mannerisms and then that clicked with some other subconscious thoughts I had before and it clicked.  It never bothered me but I use to worry about what DH would think/feel.  At the age of 9 DH told me on a family cruise.  We were in those TINY cruise bathrooms and he went "I think Larlo is gay and it doesn't bother me like I thought it would. Ive thought about it for a year or so waiting for it to "hit me" or make me think "I've lost the life I thought.." but I never felt that way."  It was like his mind and up bringing thought he would have trouble with it but the reality and day to day lives of him being perfect for us and our family and loving his cute little personality took over those "societal norms."  My oldest son said he knew Larlo was gay since he could remember. He didn't know the word or what gay was but he knew he was it.  All 3 kids are now in their early 20s and there was no real "coming out".  I think maybe a light hearted car convo in middle school but it was always assumed and known before he reached dating age. [/quote]

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