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[quote=Anonymous]My 4yr old does this and we’re working hard on it. He will literally fall out of his chair and yell that I should not have said his name and made him turn around. If he has a cookie and it falls on the ground he will say I should not have given him a cookie. Nothing is ever his fault. You know who is also never at fault? My mother. The world conspires to annoy her and thwart her every move. Everyone else must have done something wrong to set her up for failure. For her, we assume she can’t or won’t change so we just disregard her whining and don’t rub it in when she finds out she was wrong (aka finds the keys in her pocket, realizes she did sit on the remote). I think your husband needs individual therapy to figure out why he can’t take the blame or admit mistakes. If he is verbally lashing out that way at work, it could cost him his job or career progression. Is he in chronic pain? Is he depressed? Is he stressed out? Does he have ADD? Early onset dementia? Lashing out and blaming others is a coping mechanism for early dementia and ADD. [/quote]
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