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[quote=Anonymous]Mine does this as well. It is maddening. He has been in therapy solo, and we have been in couples counseling, and it has improved ever so slightly over the years, but only ever so slightly. In my DH's case, it is the direct result of having grown up in a family with terrible dynamics of blame and recrimination as the standard operating procedure in practically every instance. My DH's deflection of responsibility for what he does and blaming of others for neutral occurrences (or things that he in fact caused) is extremely reflexive and was developed over a period of years when he felt that he had to dodge bullets. It is exhausting and infuriating.[/quote]
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