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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You do have a right to change your mind, AND she has a right to her opinions and choices. Your decision is no more valid than hers. You also behaved badly by not being up front and communicating your needs and desires.

You have a right to not want more children but she also has a right to want more children. [b]It sounds like she wants another child MORE than she wants to be with you.[/b][i] Do you not want another child enough that it's worth losing your wife over? [/quote]

She says that her desire to have children started from before she even met me.  She knows that if she divorces me over this, there's a significant chance she may not end up having another child anyway but she keeps telling me this is beyond the desire to have another child, it's about the betrayal and feeling like I strung her along. [/quote]
It is. You did. 
In her situation, I would be extremely resentful of you if I stayed married. [/quote]

So, how can I fix this? She seems very hurt and is ready to go.  She said it's been years that have been wasted and if she just knew the truth from the beginning, that I was NOT willing, she would have made her choice to leave, or at least weighed it.[/quote]

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