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Reply to "Wife wants another child; I do not"
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[quote=Anonymous]If I was your wife I would be so angry. There are two levels of betrayal here: 1) You knew you were done having kids after your son was born but you said nothing. You lied about your desire for more children over and over again for FIVE years. 2) You tried to take away her agency over her own life by asking her to “wait” a little longer to have another child. You knew her fertility was an issue and you jerked her around for years. Your plan was that eventually she would understand that her feelings/plans/desires are irrelevant. I think part of you wanted to wait until her window was closed to make sure that she couldn’t have kids with anyone else - and decrease the odds of her leaving you. You’re a manipulative a**hole. What you did was no different than a woman poking a hole in a condom to get pregnant against her partners wishes. Sure, both parties deal with it, but in most cases, after a betrayal like that, the relationship is done. [/quote]
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