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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My SO of 5 years asked me this, part way through a hike, on top of a waterfall during tropical winter vacation. The moment was very proposal-ish, but “will you marry me” was not said, nor was there a ring offered. Is this a new thing? I don’t understand, just kind of replied with a quizzical yes (???), and I have been puzzling over it since.

[b]I would like to marry him, but I don’t want to remain unmarried “partners”. If I say this, and he doesn’t want to
marry....? [/b]

Can anyone weigh in on this? What would you do or ask? Btw, he is divorced.

:? [/quote]

Then you have your answer and can make your own choice.

If you say nothing and he wants to be “together forever” for another five years ... then there you will be.

What do you want?[/quote]

+1. It seems that you want to get married but you have doubts that your bf wants to get married (or get married to you). After 5 years together, both of you should know clearly what you want and how you see this relationship. There is no need to tip toe around the issue. It is time for a serious talk about your relationship. If he says that he wants marriage too then it’s great, but if your suspicions are confirmed and he doesn’t not want marriage, and you are sure that you do, then it would be the end of your relationship. As painful as that would be, it would be more painful to keep on in this state of limbo for you, go on hoping he’d change his mind and prolonging the inevitable break up. If you part ways now, you’ll have chance to meet someone else who may also want marriage. [/quote]

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