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[quote=Anonymous]I took a very, very hard line with DH when we first moved in together. He totally came around to the idea that each person should have specific, recurring chores and should do them without fail. It's not "bean counting", it's setting up a household that runs smoothly and efficiently. I hate the "you make dinner, no you make dinner" push and pull. It's much easier for everyone if these things are set in advance. OP, ask your husband what chores he is willing to do on a recurring basis. Start from there. If he says that he can't do chores because he never saw his father do chores, ask how he manages to have sex.[/quote]
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