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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would try to stay in the house and have dad visit (as opposed to overnights). If he doesn’t want the conspicuous separation, he should be fine with it. Can he also help with the house maintenance costs?
I feel like selling would be going back to square 1 - I don’t think you would be able to buy a place on your own? 
I think visitation is vastly underrated in this country. Kids don’t care who sleeps in the house, dad can put them to bed if he wants and then leave while you are out enjoying some drinks with your girlfriends. Win win! [/quote]

Do you mean this as mom has custody and dad just visits?[/quote]

Yes, of course this is what PP means. Also, how could dad “leave” young kids at home sleeping while mom is out drinking with girlfriends? The visitation thing sounds good in theory but is horrible in practice. If you wanted to be over at the other person’s home all the time, you shouldn’t have divorced. It’s weird and crates unnecessary entanglement. Also, it leaves one parent totally screwed on paper no matter how involved they are. [/quote]

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