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[quote=Anonymous]I think you should focus 100% on resolving the resentment you have that you feel like your husband bait-and-switched you. Honestly, this seems like more of a miscommunication than a bait and switch. Your husband convinced you to “try for a second” but it turns out that what he meant by “try for a second” and what you thought he meant/you meant by “try for a second” are different. I think you probably need to feel heard about how disappointing/frustrating/upsetting that is for you, but if you were on the fence before, you can probably get to a place where you just have sex when you want and let nature take its course. Be ok either way. So many people now think they can control when and how many children they have. We have a lot more control than humans ever did before, but that doesn’t actually mean that everyone gets what they want. There’s still a lot we can’t control - a lot of luck and circumstance.[/quote]
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