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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I'm in the same dynamic and honestly we need to work on not caring. That's all we can do. Of course I limit contact. Of course I try to avoid sensitive subjects. But since we have a loving relationship, despite everything, there will be times I will let my guard down and let something slip, and suffer the consequences. Well, you and me have to get to the point where we don't care any more. Still not there yet. [/quote] But how do I not care when it's turned on me and they paint themselves as the victims and me as the irrational one? It's hurtful and pushes me much farther away than the constant texts, phone calls and emails. They do NOT see this dynamic at all. They only see it from their own perspective. It makes me feel guilty to be told that I'm hurting them and that I'm dramatic, immature and irrational when I explain how all of this makes me feel. -OP[/quote]
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