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-- there is no guarantee that you will ever find love again, even if you were 23. Not to say you won't, but the stories of "my DH left me at 33, a hedge fund manager who looks like George Clooney found me at 35, and I had twins at 37" are the better side of this situation.

-- people divorce and then jump into something new without taking time out to determine where the marriage went wrong. I doubt that 90% of the marriage issues were his. What was your contribution? Were there red flags? What would you have done differently? Be honest with yourself.

-- therapy might be helpful but more important, don't go into a shell. No matter how painful it is, join a Meetup, go to a concert, volunteer somewhere (one of my friends was reeling from her husband leaving and worked at dog rescue, which did her a world of good).

-- it's OK to mourn what is over. Even if you remarry, the hurt from the first marriage will dissipate but never completely go away. And that's fine.[/quote]

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