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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am divorced, have my own place and have 2 children under 3. I am attractive, 24 years old and in school. Just curious if most men would be turned off at the fact I have 2 kids this young. [/quote]

Sorry you're getting rude comments. You will need to think "older, divorced" man who will likely have his own children too. Young guys either wouldn't be interested or wouldn't be mature enough. With children this young and vulnerable, you need to be choosey and as previously stated, don't make introductions until the relationship is very serious and you're sure you can trust the guy.

Is the dad in the picture? If he has partial custody, that makes dating easier, obviously. OP, unsolicited, but I would focus on your school/career and letting dating take care of itself. You're young and you already have kids. There is no ticking clock. Do you have family support and opportunities to pursue your own interests? [/quote]

Thanks, first time posting but definitely the last. Yah I am definitely not interested in guys my age because I just know they wont be mature enough. I'm attracted to older guys anyway so it works out. The dad is in the picture but he only comes to see the kids twice a week for a few hours. I have sole custody. I'm literally always with my kids unless I'm working at the restaurant which is 3 nights a week while my mother watches them. I have good family support though and I'm in nursing school (online). I'm content with my life right now there is for sure no ticking clock. Just nice to have some adult time at some point [/quote]

OP- if I were you, I would consider online dating for fun. No introductions to kids, no pressure. Don't be discouraged by DCUM- you'll get a lot of negative/jeering responses, but there are many people here who will try to give good advice. Yes, of course you will meet someone who is interested in you but it has to be the right someone. I have a much younger friend who was in a similar situation- married young, two small children, went back to school. Eventually, she remarried - a doctor, who is much older than she is- but their relationship works. They want the same things- enjoyment of life, no more kids (they each have two)-- it's not a sugar daddy relationship--I've known her for a long time, he's exactly her type. [/quote]

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