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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would wait at least a year to make any decisions, or maybe until your DD is 3 years old.

I personally doubted getting married, did it anyway, and it has proven to be the biggest mistake of my life. I did not want to get pregnant and I let myself be pressured into one-time unprotected sex with my DH when I did not want to and got pregnant. I was already planning to divorce...but I got stuck because I was in a different state and did not want to get stuck there.

I felt exactly the way you do now before the baby and after the baby. Fast forward--I have now been stuck in the marriage for almost a decade. My feelings have not changed, and it has only gotten work. If I had been in DC with a baby, I probably would have left him before the pregnancy and certainly before the kid was 3 years old, but I was not here.

If you still feel like this in a year, I strongly suggest you consider getting out. Seek counseling before making any decisions.

You may find as your child gets older, things get better, but that did not happen in my case. What I felt did not go away. Do not waste as many years as I have. [/quote]

Nonsense.  Your husband didn't rape you.  And, if that's your story, and you didn't want the resulting pregnancy, you could have gotten an abortion (every woman's right).

Grow up and take responsibility for your own choices and your own actions.  Most likely you don't mind being supported and not having to work for a living.[/quote]

I am the previous poster. You have no idea what you were talking about. I did not believe in abortion when you’re married, I’m not gonna lie I did think about it. I am not being supported I only took six weeks of maternity leave and I make six figures.
My husband expected that his future wife makes six figures that’s why didn’t wanna have a baby with him. I had 103 temperature of the day my kid was conceived and he knew full well that I didn’t want to get pregnant. I was literally two second exhausted too fight him off. We agreed on no children to be for the marriage due to his ridiculous salary requirement and he pulled a bait and switch on me. I am not being “supported”; Furthermore the five years that we had a nanny came directly from my salary and that was $40,000 a year times six years. Marriage is been the biggest financial mistake that I have ever made. Make assumptions about other peoples lives and you really have no idea what you’re talking about. 
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Grow up and take responsibility for your actions. If you didn’t want to have sex then it was rape. If you didn’t want the child you could have gotten an abortion. If you do not want to be married to this man, get a divorce. You have choices and you do not get bonus points in life for enduring misery.

- NP[/quote]

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