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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If $80 upsets you yet, you have an expensive piece of property to sell, then you need to lower the price of the property. Things cannot be this tight with your budget because a third kid is going to blow that idea to pieces. It sounds just vaguely like you are wound up a little too tight. 
You talk about working from home like it’s a sacrifice and belittle your DH’s job as easy. You make a production out what you don’t spend money on but want to control his expenditures. You then bias responses by announcing that your DH is an ass. The problem is you are pregnant (again) during the holidays with house guests and you can’t go out to have a drink too. [/quote]

This.  If you can't sell your property and it's draining you, then lower the price.  Your having a third child you can't afford.  You are having people over for the holidays that you also can't afford.  I notice you are willing to spend extra money for your parents coming to stay, all the extra food you will have to buy and prepare for the holidays and presents.

So your DH is blowing off some steam going out for drinks at a time of year when this is what people do.  Don't ruin the holidays with your stress.  As soon as the property is sold the money situation will be ok.

And if I was your husband I would be angry that you are humiliating him in front of your parents by making him sleep on the couch and crying and announcing your problems in front of your parents.  He is going to have to face your parents again.  You are showing no respect for him, even if you are angry at him, you don't share that with people outside of your marriage, even your parents.[/quote]

As I already said, my parents are not an added expense. They have money and bring gifts for the kids, but our groceries and take the kids for the day. We are really saving money. As for the embarrassment, my dad came to me asking me if DH was drunk. My mom saw me crying and I just told her we go in a fight. He embarrassed himself[/quote]

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