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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is better if they know your kid and where he/she plays. Also, make sure your coach knows because coaches talk.[/quote]

Is this right?  If you tell you daughter's coach that you want to practice and tryout at other clubs (even if solely as a fall-back option in case your daughter does not make the top team in the spring, in the OP's case), then I'd be surprised if that would be received positively by the coach or the club.  This would seem to be true in both the positive situation in which your daughter likes her coach and vice versa (in which case, the coach could perceive her desire to tryout at another club as a slight or as a criticism of the coach), as well as the negative situation in which your daughter does not like her coach or club (in which case, you could see the coach or club becoming petty over the request to tryout elsewhere).  Maybe your point is that it does not matter, since all coaches talk and it will be widely known that she is attending practice/trying out at another club.

It just seems that telling her current coach could create more negative results, than positive ones.  But I admittedly doesn't know, as we have never been through this situation.  [/quote]

This is tricky.  It really depends on the situation and, ultimately, where your child stands and what the relationship is between the 2 clubs (and coaches).

In my daughter's situation last spring, we did not tell her coach that she was attending practices at another club.  The 2 clubs involved are the largest and most competitive in our state (big rivals).  That said, she was given a pre-offer for her current team during this time, which we did not accept (told the coach at that point that we would decide closer to tryouts), so he knew that we were keeping options open for her.  I'm confident that her new club's coach did not reach out to her current coach--that probably would have been a turn-off for us.  Once she decided that she wanted to move, I let her current coach know (prior to tryouts, so that he knew that he would need to replace her).  [/quote]

Thanks.  You mentioned that your daughter had a pre-offer from her current club.  Is this how it works for ECNL/DA teams, including the U12 teams that become the ECNL/DA team at U13?  The current club gives some players on their top team a pre-offer before the official spring tryouts for the next season?  [/quote]

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