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Reply to "If your spouse or SO asked you to stop spending time with a friend would you?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Depends on the reason. One of my DH's friends was really rude to me when we started dating, and he basically cut him off. I didn't ask him to, but I really appreciated it. OTOH if it's coming from jealousy or trying to keep the SO from having friends of the opposite sex, that seems like it's going to be a symptom of a bigger problem. Since you said it's the only such request your SO has ever made, I assume there's a real underlying reason. The way you're framing it makes it seem like you think your SO is crazy and this friend is a good person. I think that's worth unpacking -- do you trust your SO's judgment? Is this friend so important to you that you're willing to tell your SO that her concerns don't matter to you? There's no right answer to these questions but your answers are important.[/quote]
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