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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honest opinion - probably yes, but not a waving red flag. I think a waving red flag is someone who is on the third divorce, has kids from multiple partners or is a complete loner. It’s outside the norm so people automatically assume that you also have to be outsude the norm as an individual.

That being said, I think there are more women our age who find themselves in this position than previously. Many were raised with strong female role models, encouraged with ‘the world is your oyster’ go be independent and do what you want. Plus, we have independent financial security so many had relationships but never one strong enough to feel the need to get married and they didn’t have the financial need to settle. (I know some people’s expectations are crazy high, but not everyone’s).

So, hold your chin up high. You’ve done more in your lifetime as a single woman than many married individuals have done. You sound like a person who has really worked through some great personal struggles and have come out stronger and more comfortable with yourself.

Stay open to meeting new people! [/quote]

I agree. Also many women don't 'need' a man so they get self centered and unwilling to compromise. The older perpetually single women get the more difficult it is to stay in a relationship in which they have to compromise, then their waning sex drive makes them need a man even less.  Yes, you are a walking red flag that makes men think you don't have what it takes for marriage or a long term relationship.[/quote]

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