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[quote=Anonymous]op, the thing about ADD people who aren’t actively managing their symptoms or have real organizational systems in place is that you can NEVER DEPEND ON THEM. Here is how LiViNg with an untreated adhd spouse can be, over and over again: Half the time they don’t hear you, half of that time they forget, the other fraction of time they mess up. And then the litany of excuses and how it is never their fault. Then the anger comes— how dare YOU point out that they forgot the interview appointment even tho you reminded them the night before, morning if and out it in their phone and physical calendar for them! You suck The the depression comes — they really give up trying to keep up with life. The adhd was masked before during their simpleton bachelor days and maybe their intelligence covered it up as well. But now? No clue. A wife, a house, a sr job or two, 1 or 2 kids, a nanny, a school, a yard, two sets of elderly parents to manage. Total collapse. [/quote]
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