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[quote=Anonymous]Unless he is 100% willing to get a diagnosis and meds for his ADHD, and work on being alcohol-free, yes, you need to separate from him now. And perhaps this is what he'll need to become clean, who knows? That would be great for the kids, whether or not you get back together. My husband denies he has ADHD despite a formal diagnosis, and has lost many jobs because he refuses to take his meds. I find that incomprehensible, since our son has severe ADHD and we observe that when he takes his meds it's a night and day difference in his executive function and academic success. However, my husband has such a high IQ, that he managed to bumble through. I have no work permit in this country, no family support, and therefore I have decided not to divorce. It's a pity his ADHD was not visible when we dated, because I would never have married him. Good luck, OP. You will survive this![/quote]
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