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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wife cheated. I waited til last child reached 18. I had a prenup, handed her papers after youngest’s 18th birthday and graduation from school. She was open mouthed, didn’t want to D. I said too bad, move. I had signed D decree 6 months later. I feel great. Kids live with me.[/quote] How long was the time between you discovered the affair and your youngest turned 18? I don’t have a prenup but I am considering leaving after our youngest enters college. [/quote] Be aware that although the kids are out of the house, and feels like it's finally safe to exit, that particular timing can be hard on them. It can make them feel like the family life was a lie, and that they're responsible in some way for keeping the parents in an unhappy marriage. [/quote] It's actually a really crappy thing to do to college kids. They feel that their entire life was based on a lie. [/quote] You think it's better to do the divorce when they're in high school? Or junior high? There's no good time for kids or parents to do a divorce. The "crappy thing to do" was the spouse who had the affair in the first place; the rest is just damage control. [/quote]
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