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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wife cheated. I waited til last child reached 18. I had a prenup, handed her papers after youngest’s 18th birthday and graduation from school. She was open mouthed, didn’t want to D. I said too bad, move. I had signed D decree 6 months later. I feel great. Kids live with me.[/quote] I was in the same boat as my youngest was 15 when my wife cheated having an affair that lasted over a year. I played the "good forgiving" husband for three years and used that time to get prepared for a divorce as soon as my youngest when off to college. Sadly, I did not have a prenup but I was able to get everything in order to exit quickly. We had agree to downsize and we sold our house very quickly with an option to rent it from the buyers for a few months. Soon after we signed that deal I rented my own place and told her I was filing. She was pretty shocked because she thought I had forgiven her. My kids knew about the affair so they weren't surprised except they wondered why I had waited three years. When they came home from college they stayed with me as they were adults and could make their own decisions. The divorce was expensive but worth it because my children saw me take the high road so we could get on with our lives. [/quote]
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