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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For those that survived cheating, are we talking about a one-off occurrence, perhaps 2? Or an affair of some duration (1 month, 6 months, a year, etc)?[/quote] My DW had an extra marital affair for over 4 months. After long discussions, we decided for marital counseling because we did have a genuine love between us and for the kids. It has been difficult because my DW was first open to marital counseling but was afraid to address the issues. It has worked in an open forum to address the issues we had and I do not regret my decision because I do love her on an "emotional" level. The real difficult part was the feelings she was dealing with during the extra marital affair and the lies she said that impact our family and kids. Marriage is hard but I know (and have faith) that our relationship will be stronger. I have learned a lot about my DW after I healed over the AP. [/quote] Good for you. My exDW had an AP that basically lasted over a year...while we tried to reconcile, repeatedly. Went to counseling, etc., but at the end of the day, she fell out of love for me and in love for her AP. [/quote] +1. Kept seeing AP during the ‘renconciliation’ so was a waste of time and $$. [/quote]
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