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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why?[/quote]

Too much to recap but I came on here to ask for help about what to do back when we were both living in the same house. 
Here's the backstory:
https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/728320.page[/quote]

Yikes.  Your DW is a lunatic and is damaging your DD.  Very sad.  Is your DD reasonable well balanced or is she inheriting bad traits from the horrible behavior of your DW?  If she's a well balanced kid, keep up whatever you're doing b/c she's going to need it.[/quote]

Unless the divorce is due to abuse by OP. OP is refusing to discuss the fault-based grounds for a reason.[/quote]

The fault grounds shouldn’t matter when it comes to custody, so they’re not really relevant. However, what they are relevant to is why there was no signed separation agreement and/or negotiation BEFORE a pendente lite hearing. It should have never gotten to that point. Since it did, I’m afraid OP is in for a long long road ahead of him with his ex.[/quote]

Abuse toward the wife isn't technically relevant to a custody determination, but if the child witnessed the abuse and/or OP has behaved in questionable manner toward the child, that can be grounds for a judge limiting his access to the child. Especially if the child has expressed a preference not to spend time with her father.[/quote]

OP isn’t saying purposely, but if you read between the lines it is pretty clearly adultery.[/quote]

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