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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, what you don't realize is that there are always more normal moms than mean moms.  What you also don't realize is that most of the people in your neighborhood hate the mean moms as much (if not more) than you think.  The nice moms suck up to the mean moms, because they don't want to be on the mean moms radar, or they will be next. They are not going to tell you that.

I agree with PP that you should have a holiday open house.  Don't bother inviting the mean moms, they seem judgy and gossipy, and who needs that. When your DC are in ES, they will make their own friends.  Let them.

I know someone who was in a nightmare neighborhood like the one you mention.  Looked great on paper, but there were very a handful of toxic, miserable, gossipy, judgy women. Know that everyone is well aware of who is who, OP. [/quote]

This is somehow exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much. Wish you were my neighbor ha[/quote]

Me too!   I am guessing you live within walking distance of an elementary school?  That might attract the byotches, from what I have seen. Trust me, most people feel the exact same way you do.  It will come up without you even saying anything.  It always does.  Just listen. The mean byotches try to bait you and report back, because they are mere minions.  LOL.  Don't take the bait, let them report back whatever they want to make up, because they will.  They are not very smart. ;)  Find your own people.  It is easy, because you are not a mean, gossipy, judgmental byotch.  Decent people who are personable and have who have personality don't have their behaviors, as you know.  You do you and find like people. [/quote]

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