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[quote=Anonymous]My mother loves me very much. She has anxiety and a little OCD. But she has this vision in her head about who I should be, what I should do. And she can’t get away from it. I’m too fat (and I was at 100lbs) and my house is too dirty. And every negative thought about me that goes through her head, she has to tell me. (Or she’ll bite her tongue and it all comes out in a giant blow up fight). She doesn’t understand when she says “I tell you over and over again to do (or not do) XYZ, and you never listen”, that she is the problem, not me. If you’ve been telling me for 25 years and I still don’t do it that way, maybe you need to accept the situation as is and move on. I know she loves me. But I just wished she would love and ACCEPT me, just the way I am. [/quote]
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